THE OWNER
blogging serves as a memory machine that helped document the chronicles of the owner's life since 2005.
the owner has all rights to express opinions on this site and believes that no one should judge, comment and condemned because everyone have different perceptions of things around them.
running have always been and always will be the owner's favourite sport. in the past one year, the owner took up fencing, windsurfing and mountaineering to better help strengthen the body and mind. other sports that the owner loves are swimming, badminton, table tennis, xcountry, track and field, trekking, snorkelling, scuba diving, field hockey, biking, rugby. the sky is not the limit.
the owner has always been fascinated with music and believes that it is the universal language that gets across any barrier. all time favourite genres includes pop rock, punk rock, classical, flamenco and acoustic being the current one. guitar, the chosen instrument, has been with the owner since may 2007. all-things-guitar are self-taught, as the internet is a wonderful source of learning.
the love for travelling, the owner believes, has been nearly-explicitly written down on this blog. "the love for travelling" is actually an understatement, for the owner live to travel. the places that the owner have been to, although not that many yet, are pieces of puzzles that have taken their place in the owner's heart and soul and words are certainly incomparable with actual experiences.
photography has since played a major part in documenting the owner's travel experiences. thanks to the invention of cameras, the ability to capture emotions and actions of people and the awe of mother nature are made possible. a picture, and may the owner say a good one, paints a zeallion words. and that is the beauty of photography.
interest: sports, music, arts and films, travelling, photography, food
fav. authors: roald dahl, marian keyes, usborne
MOVIES
movies watched: none so far. oh how abt dramas watched!? games of thrones and merlin!
upcoming movies: (or dramas) planning to watch the entire season of the nanny! LOL juz so i can keep myself smiling everyday
wanted list: old movies but i still wanna watch them! king's speech, black swan, burlesque, the imaginarium of doctor parnassus, dreamgirls, public enemy, blood: the last vampire, watch thy enemy, girl in the park, man on wire, no country for old man, gone baby gone, there will be blood, persepolis, black book, funny games u.s., accuracy of death, summer rain, the go master, the hunting party, the fox and the child, the days, murder of the inugami clan, youth without youth, saw3/5
chinese kills my brain cells
26 June 2008
6:20:00 PM
found this unknown person on reel's tagboard who had written a whole lot of CHINESE. well, decided to get bas help to translate (: im juz too lazy to read chinese. 自信是可以培养的。当你在某个领域有出色的表现，你自然在那方面有自信。所以我们才说，我们必须多给孩子鼓励，而不是批评。多鼓励，自然他的信心就会增加。你不可以一直都在想，我是个没有自信的人，因为这只会是个恶性循环。你要想的是，我在哪方面很出色，我可以怎么做得更好。只要你越来越好，你就会越来越有信心了。讲自己要讲的，就是自信吗？这我不敢苟同。说话，必须经过大脑。没经过大脑的话，可能会伤害到别人。你只是比别人多了一份思考，并不等于没有信心。但是，若你对自己的想法很肯定，那么就要说出来。说，其实是一种分享的过程，让别人知道你的想法，而不是为了出风头。假如大部分的时间你都在听，那也很好啊。在这个世界，很多人都在忙着说，很少人会去在意别人说什么。如果你培养了一双聆听的耳朵，你其实拥有了别人没有的财富。 confidence can be nurtured. when you are doing very well in certain areas, you will naturally be confident. so thats why we say we need to give our children encouragement and not criticism. more encouragement, naturally his confidence level will increase. you cannot always think that, i am a person with no confidence because it will be a vicious cycle. you must think what am i good in? how can i do better? as long as u get better and better you confidence level will increase. by saying what u wanna say, is that confidence? this i do not agree. you have to use ur brain when u talk. when you talk without using ur brain, this might cause u to hurt others. your hesitation doesnt reflect your lack of confidence but the fact that you are thinking. but if you are very confident about what you are thinking then say it out. speaking out is actually a process of sharing, let others know your thoughts and not to show off. if you are the listener most of the time, that is good too. in this world, there are too many people busy talking and too few ppl willing to listen. if you can nurture a pair of listening ears, you have wealth which others do not have. my thoughts: you cant change something overnight. it takes time for one to realise and make that change. its not the fault of anyone. you decide. Tschus!
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